Think Before Say

What is the More Dangerous Thing?

         Bully is a bad behavior of human which one can hurt people by their words or actions on purpose, usually more than once. As we know, most bullies often attack people who seem vulnerable. Moreover, bully can happen in school, on the job and in the neighborhood. In this era of technology, bullying is becoming more frequent and easy, since the bullies are able to do so via social media, like comment in instagram and facebook or upload pic of the victims with a bad caption. And you have to know that bullying is rampant in society, children can be bullies if you as their parents never care about them, they do this unconsciously and parents have to be smart to explain the negative effects on the victim if they still do that to their friends. There are 3 negative effects on the victim being bullied that are depression, commit suicide and revenging. 

         First is depression, people who be the victims can be as depressed  when they feel that everyone is bullying, which means no one likes or loves them anymore. When they are depression, they can use drugs to keep them calm. According to World Health Organization (WHO), depression is a main cause of health problem in this world. There are around 300 million people get this mental illness and has increased more than 18% since 2005. (World Health Organization (WHO) announces that depression is a major cause of health problems and disability around the world. There are around 300 million people suffering from this mental illness. The number of people with depression has risen more than 18% since 2005). CNNIndonesia.com And in Indonesia, Dr.Nova Riyanti Yusuf, SpKJ has researched 941 students in Jakarta and 30% of them got depressed. (Research conducted by Dr. Nova Riyanti Yusuf, SpKJ on approximately 941 school students in the Jakarta area showed more than 30 percent were depressed).detik.com But from the datum we can not make a conclusion that they are depressed because of bullying. Why be like that ? From the datum WHO and research of Dr.Nova Riyanti Yusuf, SpKJ did not explain the specific what causes their backs to become depressed. 

         Second is commit suicide, a person can feel that "nobody love me" because of your words. When she is hopeless with all of bully she gets, she can commit suicide when she feel unable to bear the pain resulting from bullying. According to Data from Global School-Baseed Student Health Survey (2015) in Indonesia, there are 5.9% the girl teenagers do the suicide and 4.3% boys.(Based on data from the Global School-Based Student Health Survey (2015) in Indonesia, they said, the idea of suicide among adolescent girls was 5.9% and men 4.3%.) pikiranrakyat.com World Health Organization (WHO) tells there is one person commits suicide worldwide a second that means there are 800 thousand people have committed suicide annum. So, people die more quantity because commit suicide than killed in war. (The World Health Organization (WHO) reports that every second one person commits suicide worldwide. The number of people who lost their lives due to suicide is even worse than the number of people killed in war. In total there are 800 thousand people who have committed suicide every year.) CNNIndonesia.com But we can read and see from the Global School-Based Student Health Survey and the datum from WHO did not tell us what is the main reason they commit suicide. We have to use crtical thinking on that. So, we can not make a conclusion that they commit suicide because of bullying.

        And the last, who knows about everyone character ? A person can take her revenge any way she wants. She might be able to withstand the bully she gets but but she became formed as a vengeful person.There are 13% student to teacher violence and 30% student to other students violence, and the reason of students is revenging and compete because instruction of senior.(...student to teacher violence as much as 13% and perpetrators of student violence to other students are also quite high, namely 30%.The reason students do violence against fellow students is to take revenge and intentionally compete for strength (gladiators) because of the orders of senior students....) KPAI_PostBerita For example, in Chinese, A guy is 28 years old called Mr.Zhou,stabbed some students who just returned from school without caring anything, precisely outside the Mizhi secondary school region, in Yulin city, Shaanxi Province, Friday, April 27, 2018. There were 9 students died and 10 students were injured, they were around 12 to 14 years old. Zhou's reason for doing this is revenge for having been bullied while studying there. (Mr. Zhou is 28 years old,stabbed and injured a number of students who walked home blindly. 9 students were killed and 10 others injured, victims aged between 12-14 years. This incident occurred outside the Mizhi region secondary school, in Yulin city, Shaanxi Province, Friday, April 27, 2018. Zhaou did this as revenge for the bullying that had befallen him while he was still in school there.)Surabaya.tribunnews.com

        In conclusion, we can see how dangerous bullying is. Bullying must be dealt with immediately, if no, this deviant behavior can damage the younger generation. We have to think  before we say our words to people. Also we must be a smart people and good people at using our speech. Please do not hurt people with your words and remember do not fight back or commit violence to the perpetrators also give the spirit to remain confident by staying with other good people.